Just an update. The wife has backed off the watch issue. Turns out her Lalique fetish has gotten the best of her, so she's laying low.
I went back to the local jewler, with a buddy and Exporer II wearer, to try on Rolexs again. It's always good to get another man's opinion in these matters - especially one who owns a Rolex. Anyway, we both agreed that even the Explorer I is too small for me. The Airking and Oyster Perpetual are totally out of the question as they are even smaller. The "Professional" line - Explorer II, GMT, Sub Mariner, Sea Dweller, are excellent, but I want something a little less sporty. That lead me to the Datejust. It's between the Explorer I and Professional watches. I tried on a variety of them. I really like them and have decided that is the way to go for me. Now I just need to decide between all the different dial colrs and the two bezel choices. I didn't like the fluted bezels until I saw them in person. Now I like them. I also prefer the Oyster bracelet to the Jubilee.
This is the basic idea-
For those in the market, I strongly recommend trying before buying. Pictures just don't do it. You have to see it on your wrist. Retailers will knock about 10%off in my experience. Turns out I went to school with the owner of the store I went to, so I can get a better deal.
Also, size matters. There is a wide range of sizes and you really need to see them in person. The Airking and Oyster Perpetual are 34mm, which was the old standard, but small by today's standards. The Explorer I is 35mm. The Datejust 36mm - that 1 or 2 mm really makes a difference! The Pros - 40 mm. They have a new sport model soon to be released at 46mm - too big imo.
According to the shop owner, the Panerais have been selling like crazy.