[gchappel]

After 25+ years of marriage I believe physical attraction- whatever that may be- is like kindling. You absolutely need it to get the fire going, but after that it makes little long term additions to the flames. Sure, even after years, attraction gives a couple of hot spots and throws off some sparks- but adds little to the glowing embers of love and a wonderful relationship.
One night stands are a whole different bucket of fish!
Gary