[cstreit]

If you think it's a time management thing, I'd simply lay it on the line. Some mild restrictions now, with the understanding that if the grades aren't back next report, the extracirriculars (ie boyfriend, volleyball) will start going away so she can focus on schoolwork.

Rather than ground her since you say she's a pretty good kid, for NOW, I would just insist that she devote x amount of time per day for homework...

WHat's the BF like?