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WOW...thanks for all your responses. A few coomon issues brought up:
Drugs: nope. She's very much anti-drug. Besides as an athlete her school does random testing on a monthly basis. She's been clean every test for the past 2 years. Not a big drinker, either. The occasional beer when out with bf (she's usually the DD). A glass of wine with dinner every once in a while.
The reason this is problematical ius that we saw it coming last year and discussed it vis a vis so much time with bf with reassurances she was working the keep the grades up.
And yeah...at 17 she's very mature in many ways. Tough to know whether to punish her or sit down and have a discussion on consequences..
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