This is one reason why I pretty much quit playing pool. Everyone wants to play for money. It's as if you are nothing unless you are willing to put up money. I used to be very good; to a point where many people were betting on me on the side. I just never participated in the gambling. I just got tired of arguing with people who only wanted to play for money.
Example: I picked up a stick at a local pub the other day to play in a tourament for a good cause. I hadn't picked up a stick in a year. I ended up placing second in the tournament (would have been first, but I had a little too much liquid refreshment

). After the tournament, everyone wanted to play me for money. People would actually get angry when I said I would be happy to play, but not for money. Instead of playing, they would just walk away. Some people just don't understand that other people just like to play for the sport of it.