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Homeless and Shelters

From our direct involvement with the homeless and shelters; we strongly feel that these types of facilities do not work. Much like the welfare system does not work; in fact 90% of the time anyone is "given" something for nothing there will be a negative effect.

A good example is our Native Reservations that were established to provide renumeration to the Native communities; these systems have statistically failed.

We directly and personally observed the effects of the Shelters on the homeless; and going with the old cliche of "if you build it, they will come"; it holds true for Shelters too. They'll come and never leave.

Although the concept of providing hot meals and shelter for the homeless is very good, and the types of people that provide these services through their personal works are "Saint-Like", the system fails to get people back on their feet again.

Charity
Although giving is truly one of the greatest pleasures in life, how we give can be very complex. My wife and I use to give to the Church and then support several charities with annual donations; then about 10 years ago, we re-evaluated our works.

We both strongly feel that giving comes from the heart, and we feel very blessed to have the ability to give. We do our giving anonymously as much as possible. We both feel strongly about the current economic and social trends that have made life so tough on women; as we feel that a women's role as a mother and home maker is truly God's greatest intention, however many women today found themselves in relationships with losers that could not provide for their families, and for one reason or another, the women was left to work and raise her children on her own.

Many of these women probably get support from their children's father, we do not know all the details in most cases; however we do know that mothers are the most unselfish group of people on the planet today. A mother that resists the lure of the easily obtainable welfare or social assistance and goes out to work everyday while raising her family, has definately found a place in our hearts! The world is full of these types of people today. They are winners in a loser society.

When the opportunity presents itself, we work through our Church to provide gifts for the families. We do not just give money; we find out the age of the children and we provide clothing, toys and supplies. We find out who their landlord is and will pay a months rent, thus freeing up a pay cheque for the working mother. Sometimes a gift certificate to a day spa is a nice touch. The process for us is a far better method of giving.

Perhaps others can be inspired here, I do not know? But I hope this helps?

"To whom much is given, Much is required"
...... just try and out give the Lord!

God Bless you!
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