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MANY moons ago when the earth was young I dated a lady who was a bit older than me (most of the ones I dated were) for a long period of time. Her young (5-6) son was a bit out of control. About three months into it she lost it and yelled for me to deal with it. He was like, yeah, right, my dad will take care of you. I told him the spanking was coming, I bent him over my knee, and struck him one good one. Kid was so shocked he didn't know what to do!! Dad tried to say something later but I was a good head taller and just as big. He did not push it and left well enough alone. Kid was great after that!!!
You both just have to find a way to work it out. Something you can BOTH live with. I would not say it is impossible, but you both have to agree to it and deal with the children as if they were yours all along. It helps if the ex is on board as well.
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David
'83 SC Targa (sold  ) MANLY babyblue honda '00 F250 7.3L (MINE!)
'15 F250 Gas (Her Baby) '95 993 (sold )
I don't take scalps. I'm civilized like white man now, I shoot man in back.
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