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Originally Posted by Tishabet
Both of my parents are alive. If they decide to give my brother a car, isn't that their right? I would never dream of standing up and saying, "Hey, you gave him a car! Where's MY car? It's not FAIR!!"
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Sure, that's their right.
But, IMO, it's not really fair to the siblings, though. I suppose people have different definitions of fairness.
My parents, through the years, have given things to the adult (or semi-adult) children (they bought our cars until we were out of college, for example). But they always did so evenly.
I will be the same with my kids when they are adults - anything I give to one, the others will receive the same, or the same value. To me, that is only fair.