[HarryD]

We started taking our kids when they were 2 and 4 (they are 12 and 14 now). Always a great time. Stay at least 7 days to really soak it in. I like Maui (more to do and a bit of night life) or Kauai (more laid back and tropical).

Last time we stayed at Kaui, we stayed at holiday Inn, ok not great. In Maui we try to stay in Kaanapali or or Kahana Beach, although Kihei and Wailea is nice too.

Rent a condo on the beach that has a water view you you can lounge in your PJs while you sip coffee. All the beaches are great, just find one that fits your budget.

If you are going in the winter, the Whales are in Lahania Harbor (Maui) and you can charter whale watching trips. Both Kuai and Maui have lots of places to snokel. Rent a car and rent your gear there (last time I went, I used Snorkel Bob's) to access many of them.