[mikester]

I don't understand why you can't say he is going to be fine? If you have faith (any faith) and with your feelings toward him are as you say they are - it is sometihng I think you should be able to say comfortably - but that is just me.

Recently we had a family friend die of Pancreatic cancer as well, he was the load master in my Dad's flight crew for many years. Responsible for saving many lives including my Dad's - I have no problem with saying that I am sure he is fine now. It was sad to be sure and I don't think your tears are something to be ashamed of.