[livi]

What Tobra said. Pain management is absolutely crucial and a specialist should be consulted preferably. Depending of the type of pain, there are today a decently wide variety of pain relieving medications and treatments.

The brutal fact is that the prognosis is pessima and the pain is both intolerable and, not least, a constant reminder of its cause. Effective pain relief is the basis for being able to, at least part time, experiencing good moments.

Really sorry to hear about your friend, Tabs, but I am certain she finds a very good companion and comfort in you as a friend.