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This year was my 12 year old daughter's third year of very competitive club volleyball. The first two years we were just lucky she kept it off the floor and got it back over the net. This year we had a talk to her coach and he said if she is going to become an elite player she needs to start hitting the ball aggresively. Now she needs to turn the corner from being a player having fun to a player trying to win. We need to stop telling her it was OK to hit a bad ball once an awhile and start riding her ass about doing better. My wife had a little problem with it at first but I was all for it.

Kids need to learn that there are winners and losers. Winning is much better.