[MRM]

You haven't had much leadership training, have you? You treated your wife the way a DI would treat a new recruit in basic training. The proper way to address any issue with her was to discuss it with her in private. There is no excuse for poor firearm safety and there is no excuse for dressing your wife down in public, especially when your self-avowed reason for doing so is to impress the people you're humiliating your wife in front of. You have just announced to your wife in public that you care more what complete strangers think about you means more than your wife's feelings. You couldn't gently walk over, take the gun and suggest she wait the game out and then talk to her on the car ride home? Dealing with people like your DI dealt with you in basic makes for poor interpersonal relationships and isn't good personnel management in the real world.