[andrew15]

Sadly, it looks like the damage is pretty much done here - public yelling at the wife in front of peers make you look like a complete douche. Following it up with being very angry for 5 hrs probably cements that she will never go to the range with you again and will resent the time you spend there in the future. Hopefully you can work it out, but this is more than a night on the couch that you are currently facing. Others suggested professional help - get it now before it's counselling of the marriage sort.

AM