lolo, My GF wants to buy expensive things and skimps on things for herself.
I can deal with that. So, I try to not say "No" most of the time.
However, I'm keeping a trump up my sleeve.
How many times has your other half said "no" to fun time in bed at night?
So, I figure one day I'll pull the trump and take her shopping and just say, "no, not today honey, I have a head ache"