My balance with women is not complicated and is based on simplicity. The most dangerous women out there is over 30 and divorced with kids. The second most dangerous woman has a "plan" and is on a mission. Therefore, find the best sex first, then see if you can talk to her in the morning and tomorrow. Then live with her for 10 years. If she is still around after 10 years she is there because she loves you and you are more important than any preplanned mission, IMO. I am very happily married to the best of them. [The bride is not the first one I lived with.]