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Originally Posted by KevinP73
Because you teach people how to treat you. In this case you've taught yourgirlfriend that she can make your life tough and still have all the benifits of being your girlfriend. She wins, you lose. Get used to it or get a new girlfriend.
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there is alot of truth in this. the behavior we permit is the behavior we promote. not saying you have absolute control over her but you do have control over what you expose yourself to.
also, one of my nieces treats her father like crap because she knows it is safe to do so. he will never leave her because he's dad, so she takes out all her crap on him.