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Come to think of it, I had this girlfriend. It just wasn't right... we didn't worship each other...
I broke up with her. 2 weeks later I met the best girl ever- my now wife. (awwwwwwww)
Think about it this way- if you went and hung out with a dude one day, went to the bar and he whined the whole time about his crappy job and didn't like that you were watching football more than talking to him, and cried at some point, you would NEVER hang out with him again. Its the vagina that messes up this whole thing- take the vagina out- would you still hang with her?
If you don't look forward to coming home to her, bail.
My friend's mom, when we were really little, gave us a piece of advice that stuck with me forever and I think has kept me safe. She said "Marry a girl who WORSHIPS you". And that means YOU- your thoughts, your dreams, your body (very important), your jokes. It does not mean your ability to support her, your ability to be a sounding board for her tales of woe, your willingness to cease living for any purpose besides her, etc.
You are at a major crossroads.
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