[imcarthur]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

Ian, I'd have kicked them out a month after the wedding with no financial support whatsoever.

If I had done that, he would probably be incommunicado with his mother & I would have probably lost a wife or at best, she would have been seriously wounded. She has a hyper-protective mother instinct - call it Single Mother Syndrome. A knee jerk reaction would have been fatal to all & beneficial to none. Patience & finesse looks like it will win the day. I'll report after the move.

Ian