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Originally Posted by 9dreizig
Well what I've learned through this whole process is you often can't see it coming.. and clearly it's mental illness that nobody can possibly understand why they would do it.. both of these people were loved by everyone around them.. I'm just happy that both of my sons have independently said " that's never the answer" I worry about the scars that this has left on my brother his wife and son, and my ex wife. I'm sure everyone else will be fine, I'm just not sure losing a spouse or child is ever totally recoverable......
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I feel for you and your family. Take care of each other, although it sounds like that is your focus. My first wife, Sue, lost a sister this way. It has been many years but it did impact her family even to this day. Very sad. The focus on the positive is very important. It just seems that some of the youngsters face pressures that we may not have or that they think we may not be able to relate with them. Again, much luck and healing to your family, words just don't seem enough.