[vash]

recent thread got me thinking.

i have an past girlfriend. awhile back, i got a call from her (i almost kicked my bro's arse for passing along my ###). she got married to a doctor, just had her second kid, husband started cheating, then he started abusing her. i dont know if it is verbal or physical abuse. she was in tears, crying about always meeting the wrong type of man. she said i was only bad for her, because i was commitment phobic.

(on a side note. she had no direction in life, i couldnt even figure out her ever changing college major, she was going to drop out to move with me to SF..NOT! i was not commitment phobic, i just didnt want to start out in life supporting someone,,anyways, i digress)

the guy before me beat her also...WTF? is it a self confidence thing? i dont get it. i changed all my phone numbers, and moved on.