[red-beard]

A few things to know.

This is not going to go easy. You have many months here where you will have to "adjust" memories. You are going to go through things and figure out that this has been going on for longer than 3 weeks. Expect to be mad, sad, glad, pissed off, insane, drunk and every other emotion or state possible.

She is a liar.

She is a drug addict.

She is cheating on you.

She cannot be trusted. Ever.

You are very very lucky that this will cost you a ring and some head scratching. You are lucky that you're not married and going to lose half your stuff.

Listen to the guys here about getting the vehicle back. You have it on record (text message is better than a voice call) that you want your car back by _____ or you ar reporting it stolen.

Do you have a mutual friend? Give her stuff to them. Do not take it to work, as you do not want to ruin her. She will do that by herself. Do not try to take revenge. It is not necessary. She has screwed herself more than you ever can.

Been there, done that, got the divorce papers...