Thanks for the responses so far.
Car is selling in the low teens, FWIW, but I do understand the hassles on both sides concerning > $10K cash withdrawals / deposits.
I don't have to sell, but all the hue and cry over gas prices and the environment hasn't made selling a V8 SUV easy and that has shown in the responses I have gotten so far.
I had never thought about the potential for a loss due to accident if I release the vehicle prior to known whether the funds are good. Thanks for pointing that out.
"On the other side of town" (i.e. Rennlist -
http://forums.rennlist.com/rennforums/showthread.php?t=463453) , it has been suggested that the buyer send me a copy of the cashier's check before coming and I take it to Wells Fargo and have them tell me whether it is good. When the buyer comes I verify that the copy and original match and if so, I can feel secure in releasing the vehicle and title.
Thoughts?