[Superman]

You're thirty-seven? On the politics board, you don't sound a day over thirteen. (kidding)

Those are good questions for a urologist. Get a family doctor if you don't have one, and visit that doctor occasionally. Ask them these questions and perhaps get referred to a urologist. Aside from getting these questions answered, you might get a head start on those future prostate challenges. Prostates simply do not work flawlessly until the end. Nope. They act up. I'm 51 and starting to deal with stuff. I don't pee often, but then I don't hydrate either. Nowadays, I have to stand at the urinal and do the multiple muscle contraction thing to make darned sure I'm not leaving anything in there that might dribble in the next couple of minutes. Patience is golden. When I was nineteen, a trip to the urinal was forceful and brief. Today, it is a lesson in patience.