hi guys thankxs for the quick replies,
some back ground
It would be a case of getting married to a Canadian National.
She/we would either get married here in the UK and stay here or go back.
of She/we would get married in canada and stay there or come back.
She has her own house and live in Ontario.
She has a managerial role for a large american multinational.
problem is if she comes here she may not get a trasnfer and have to job search herself. My company does not have a branch in Canada
We both have houses and good jobs though i suspect she has a better job and house
BUT I got the Porsche !

hehehehehehehe
My job means I'm security cleared to whats called SC vetting, howevere I'm as i said 43, and healthwise, I'm Diabetic (well controlled) and have a heart murmer.
If we get married in Canada,, she would end up planning, paying for it (at least her dad would) but if we got married her, I'd prolly get lumbered with that
so at the moment I'm voting for getting married in Canada