[Shaun @ Tru6]

So my friends wanted me to join facebook. I created an account, that's it, nothing more.

I've kept in touch with all my friends from college that I ever wanted to remain friends with, and we are all close, even though we live all around the country. Thanksgiving in MN is a ritual I cherish every year with one of them.

But now one of my goofball "friends" from college (a guy you sort of liked and he hung on to the group, but wasn't always invited to festivities, etc.) just added me as a friend and I've got to confirm it. This is the same jerk who was jealous of my my gf at the time and did everything he could to break us up. (found this out later) Yeah, not much of a friend. And I have no interest at all in seeing him now.

What's the best course of action here? Ignore him? Reject the invitation outright? Accept, go through a bit of the motion, keep him at a distance, let it fade away...

What's the proper protocol?