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Originally Posted by red-beard
My mother is an enabler. I believe she created this problem.
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She did indeed create this problem.
Do you know whether she is aware she created it? If you don't think she knows, speak to her privately sometime and tell her.
Stress to her that she is not doing your sister any favors... she is stunting her growth into adulthood... into the real world.
Tell her she's got to learn how to say no to her.
And then drop it... knowing you warned her... after that, it's her decision.
BTW, if you know your mom has "helped her out" and/or "bailed her out of financial stuff" to the tune of significant amounts, it is unfair to the rest of you if she doesn't "adjust" her will so you sister gets less.