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Originally Posted by Heel n Toe
BTW, if you know your mom has "helped her out" and/or "bailed her out of financial stuff" to the tune of significant amounts, it is unfair to the rest of you if she doesn't "adjust" her will so you sister gets less.
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what a bunch of CRAP!
It assumes that you are ENTITLED to anything after your parents die. It may be that they split things up evenly in their will but while they are alive there is no reason to be "FAIR" about how they spend their money. It isn't yours until they are dead.
Every time my Dad/Mom gives my sister money - I expect nothing.
I am aware however that the more they give her money the less they have (neither are swimming in it) so I am concerned about their retirement and the drain she is. $500 here or there is one thing but the credit cards - that is entirely another.