[Hugh R]

I have a 23 y/o daughter with whom I had very frank talks at the age of 14/15/16/17 of what boys want and that they will lie/tell you anything to get "it". I told her "you control the boy, don't let him control you" Caught her a few times going where she shouldn't and took away her car at 16/17, now at 23 she tells me she appreciates my reigning her in. Now working on Partner track and a CPA at the accounting firm of KPMG, bought her own 08 BMW 325 a few months ago. The salesman ran a second credit check because he couldn't believe a 23 y/o could have a credit score of 760!

Sleeping over at g/f house, yes with parents there.

Going away with "friends" skiing, only when she went to college.

Son, same thing, just now 20 stays with guy friends overnight, OK at a house with parents, when he was 18 or younger. Now that he's 20, no I don't care.

BF/GF staying over night, NO!