[DARISC]

There's a difference between giving from the heart and giving from the heart with conditions placed on the recipient. The latter may not be unreasonable, but doesn't always work out to the giver's satisfaction.

Some may give from the heart while accepting that the recipient falls short of their ideals.

Some can find that at some point their giving is no longer felt as being from the heart. I guess that if that happens, it's logical to find someone else to give to because your heart tells you to.

In the end, it's a decision that only the giver can make; gotta know what's in your own heart, I guess.