[imcarthur]

Originally Posted by Dottore

There's very little sense of privacy or intimacy. Everything is discussed freely with friends and relatives—which can be very disturbing if you don't expect this.

Also, and at the risk generalizing,

Bingo to that - although I didn't have exposure to a wide number. Just RM#2 & her extended family & various girlfriends. But RM#2 happily told us about having sex with RM#1 the first time. She told us that she made him wear a condom & subsequently refused when he didn't. (smart girl) She tolds us that he had an HIV test very early in their relationship. RM#1 would be horrified if he knew everything that she told us.

Ian