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Originally Posted by carnutzzz
Sounds like someone with potential personality disorders.
Make sure that if he has such a disorder, he does not touch cocaine. That drug will trigger a month worth of panic attacks and bad decision making.
By 25, there is something going on here.
I would give him 2 options:
1. Join the military and use the house as "home base" when on leave.
2. Get out and good luck.
Anything else seems like enabling. I could see if he was 19 and having trouble, but 25? Way past time to man-up and start feeling the effects of bad decisions.
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the bad thing with this is if he has a drug problem and does not kick it, it will come out in the military, then he is stuck with a dishonorable discharge.
get him in a recovery program, i was part of celebrate recovery. it is a christian based program. as long as he is in a program, he can stay in the house, if he quits the program, he is OUT! the CR program is something you and your wife can attend also. (then you know he is going) most people only make it about 3 months, that is the point where they have to do some kind of self recognition thing of some sort. (you basically confess all you have done wrong).
i played guitar and/or ran sound at our CR program for several years, i have heard a lot of testimonies and i have seen it work. like i said above, the good thing is, there are groups you and your wife can attend and be a part of his recovery.
otherwise, dont let the door hit ya on your way out, your just making it easier for him to do nothing but drugs