[speeder]

So sorry to hear about this. I've actually been through similar tragedies/misfortunes and as bad as they are, when I'm in the middle of them I always think that they might as well all happen together so that good luck can resume. Sort of a "let it rain" philosophy.

I hope that this helps in some small way, you'll be in my thoughts either way. The bipolar guy is at least at peace now, if not his survivors. Suicide is brutal.