A wise man has many councilors; glad we could help out and provide you with some options. I wish all the very best to you and your family.
I'd imagine you and your wife feel better, and Steve too.... so your decision is likely a very good one at this point. Relieve some of that pressure that was building up! Although when you see Steve next, feel free to kick him in the Azz and say, "That's from Rob"
Cheers!