[onewhippedpuppy]

Originally Posted by kstar

Perhaps I am being idealistic, but knowing my spouse might be tempted to leave me or have a fling if she was simply exposed to the opportunity seems like a big problem.

I think I would prefer my spouse or girlfriend to be exposed to all kinds of temptations! Seems like a good litmus test.

FWIW.

I believe the saying is, you're only as loyal as your options.

I have never worried about my wife at any point in our relationship. But I also find it stupid to participate in a site that serves only to connect people based partly on physical attributes. Would you participate on a dating site if you were married? People are stupid, people make mistakes, people are prone to flights of fancy. It's much harder to make a mistake if you don't put yourself in a situation that allows it. Why gamble with your relationship?