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That is a sad story Raymond. My first marriage started to fall apart when I was sitting in a military doctors office with a Major that informed me I had contracted chlamydia & started grilling me about who I was cheating on my wife with. Up to that point I was naive enough to believe my wife would never cheat on me.
After exiting the office, I found her in the lobby crying. She said she had been raped by a young long haired American. We were stationed in Germany & I wanted to go to the MPs, but she insisted we don't. I also noted that after the alleged rape, her behavior hadn't changed. At that point, I determined that she was lying, but she refused to come clean. She finally told me a couple years after the divorce that she was messing around with a guy from my squadron.
I didn't divorce her because she cheated on me, I divorced her because she turned into a liar. I really believe we could have gotten past the infidelity. Bottom line, it destroyed our 2 year old daughter's world. I did everything I could over the next 16 years to make it up to her, but the damage was done.
I don't understand why my ex changed, she was not raised that way. It was the begining of a long slide into the hell that is now her life. I sued her for custody when our daughter was 12 & won, thank God. It was all very sad, but now well in my rear-view mirror. Good Luck Raymond!
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Paul
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