Thank you Roc.
I will have to do just that if I want to use the relay. I did not have the time last night to test the fuses but I replaced every fuse cable back to their original positions before installing the relay, yellows on 6th fuse, whites on 7th and the h-4's work perfectly fine, low beams and high's, just like the h-5's used to.
I don't know what I'm doing, so any help is greatly appreciated.