[vash]

my marriage is alot of things. convenience is not one of them.

my world is the opposite. i have good friends that are super happily married. a few divorces for balance. not many kids in my group. strange.

i cannot explain marriage. it feels like teamwork to me. safe, fun, like we are trying to take on the world together. the commitment is just part of the recipe.

i have a good, no, a great friend that badmouths marriage all the time. gave me a rash of chit when i decided to get married. he has never had a proper relationship, and is now currently on his first girlfriend. she is a beotch. he is not an attractive person...he let himself go, his hygiene is suspect, he has a crap job, but his bad attitude is the main reason he is unattractive to the ladies. he badmouth marriage because he CANT get married. definately sour grapes. he is like a brother to me. i try to pep-talk him but he is too negative.