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By banging her knowing that she wanted a LTR and you wanted nothing of the sort, you already hurt her. Now it is just a matter of how much, based on how much longer you lead her on, unless you were upfront from the start that you didn't want anything out of it. It will probably still hurt, but at least you were honest.
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Honesty is, of course, good. But chill out on the "you hurt her" stuff guys
All's fair. She could go back to her husband next week for all we know.
My advice: Relax and enjoy. Just be upfront that you don't want a serious thing. She's a big girl and can decide what she wants to do.