[911Rob]

Well Homeboy it's been stated enough times...... test first.
If he's not your son, count your blessings.
If it is............. get ready, your life is changed forever.

Should the test become positive, then you need to become positive.
God works in mysterious ways my friend.
Take on an attitude of gratitude immediately!
Do everything in your power to become this boys father, just like the Kaptain said.

When it comes to your child, you WILL experience huge amount of remorse and regret if you do not do everything in your power to love this child and raise it. Be grateful about it too. There are tons of aids available to assist you.

You can likely hire the services of a nanny for the first year or even two if you are challenged? Don't even think about adoption imo.

As for visitation rights, even if the boys mother is a two bit tramp, he will love her and you wont be able to prevent it, just prepare him for it; she will be there for a lifetime.

I am a father of five and there is no greater joy than the gift of a child.
Get the test, if its positive, make the change; you're a winner, you'll do fine.
Follow your paternal instincts. Trust yourself.

God Bless Ya!