Probably one of the best things I've EVER done in my entire life, apart from marrying my wife would be to have sent my kids to a private school, fwiw.
AND if I could afford it, my kids would drive whatever they wanted. As it turns out, I have bought each of them a vehicle upon getting their licenses, but mostly beaters
Life is meant to be enjoyed, to the fullest. When you look at someone or something and condone it, you separate yourself from it. Be happy for the little munchkins, if only we knew back then how easy it really is?
My kids get a college fund AFTER they've worked in the chosen field for 1 year.