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Originally Posted by m21sniper
her profile states in bold caps (paraphrasing): "IF YOU ARE A MAN DO NOT MESSAGE ME OR COMMENT ON MY PAGE, GIRLS ONLY."
And i didn't....she messaged me totally out of the blue when the site im on (for whatever reason) featured me on their home page earlier today for about an hour.
I also got about 25 messages from gay guys. We won't talk about those though.
As for my strategy, i write poetry. And i have long blonde hair. And blue eyes. And i look young. And i have no fat. At all.
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I once dated a girl that I met through a friend. The second time we hung out I walked her out to her car and noticed one of those oval stickers with the state abbreviation for Texas on it, except this one had rainbow letters. I brought it up with a little jab about Texas and asked in a naive way what was up with the rainbow, she said she just thought it was pretty but I sensed a little tension so I moved on. A week or so later I found a photo of her in her room (I wasn't snooping) with an "ex" who looked suspiciously like a man with boobs. She noticed me studying it and broke down and told me that before we met she had been dating girls exclusively for about 4 years (she wasn't much over 18 so this was probably almost all of her dating experience). I was mature about it and everything went great for about 8 weeks until I got a call one morning saying she was on her way back to Texas and we wouldn't be seeing each other anymore. I think she was a little upset that I wouldn't commit to anything long term. We are still in touch and she is now married to a man and as far as I know hasn't been back to the other side. All in all it was a great time, she was very open and I eventually found out that she had more experience with girls than I did. I also found out that she fooled around with the female friend that we met through, I still kick myself for not getting us all together for drinks more often.
If you can get her to turn the corner IMO you are in for a good time. Just remember that the women in her past or present are not your competition, so always be respectful to them and her feelings about them and she will reward you for it.