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Originally Posted by georgeinhere
Sniper, I am not a hater. I think that you should do whatever it is that floats your boat...after all, we'll be dead soon enough.
I think that some of the posts that others have made regarding the "quality" of the person that you're dating and/or where the compliments are coming from are fairly spot on...however, they are only spot on for those that feel strongly about it. You're having fun and it seems to me that you aren't discussing chaos theory with any of your conquests.
I'd imagine that many of us have gone through people in the "service" industry...waitresses, hair dressers, cashiers, exotic dancers, etc. I find that when you get older, the "kill" isn't as satisfactory and having someone that's well educated, can hold a conversation in different ares and can still be sexy and beautiful can not be ignored.
I do not think that you need to be married nor do you need to change your lifestyle...I also think that if it is satisfactory for you to be with these women, then go for it but be aware that quantifying a partner based on 1/3 or whatever fraction that they may "hold" on the totem pole is a fairly superficial way of looking at women...but once again, if you choose to do it...
I think that it would be fun for a guy like you to try and "pick-up" an educated, beautiful and successful woman that has choices and see where that leads, you will find the challenge a lot greater than getting into the pants of a woman that will drop them for anyone...you'll also grow as a person since these women will tired quickly.
However, you should do whatever it is that you want to do, porn-women need love too  |
Your entire post is much appreciated.
I have dated some nurses, and some educated women- mostly of the cougar variety (and tons of young college, ermmm...sluts). It is because i have done so that i have decided i prefer "service industry girls"- many of whom by the way are very interesting and intelligent people in their own right. And often with much smaller egos and senses of entitlement.
Both types have their upside. Both types have their downside.
What i like about your post is that you said what you said without an air of condescention and with an actual effort to understand where i'm coming from.
Your post lacked bitterness, or one upmanship, or jealousy, or an attempt to force me to conform with your own ideals of the norm, which is something i cannot say for some of the other posts in this thread.
This thread was intended as a fun diversion, and to amuse the boys at pelican with true tales of my attempt at converting a lesbian. When i found out she was a porn queen i lost interest though, i don't need that kind of crazy. So at that point, when it was over, I gave the details, i posted the pix....i put it all out there because i'm not afraid what people think of me, and i am secure in who i am.
And that, my friend, is the true measure of a man.
PS: The lesbian has not handled the rejection well. First she messaged me selling, then begging, then accusing, then insulting, until i finally blocked her messages and banished her from my friends list. Hahaha....she had it bad.
PSS: Yo Rob, that's a kickass song, and yes, it is very much me.
