A month or two ago, I responded to a fellow pelican regarding an issue with his car via' a PM. He responded and mentioned something as an aside about his family that I have personal experience with. He and I have spoken on the phone and via' email/PM a number of times and I've shared with him my experiences with the same family issue (medical). It's been refreshing to me and I believe helpful to him with my sharing of experiences, and what to expect. I have yet to meet him in person, but I will some day soon. It's been good for me, and I believe helpful for him to have someone to talk to a little. Another side benefit of Pelican. If you can use it for your own personal issues/concerns have at it. I think Wayne would approve.