[HHI944]

Is it in bad taste to exclude the grooms' brother from the festivities? I'm trying to plan things from a few states away and his little brother continues to be the biggest problem. He's only 20 (every strip club and bar in the area is 21 just to get in the door, has no drivers' license and is a *little bit*odd (he got us kicked out of a bar 2 years ago because he kept staring at the bouncer. They aren't all that close (hadn't spoken in almost a year when the wedding was announced)
I'd like to include him, but short of going to ******* chucky cheese, I just can't think of a good way.

Input please!!!!