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Originally Posted by mikester
Wait, you said you dated which implies something of the sort of a 'good night kiss' at least (otherwise it ain't a date) and then you say you haven't initiated more than a strong friendship.
I'm confused - maybe it's because I'm not supposed to be awake right now. I dunno.
Sounds like you're in the friend zone. Hard to get out of there, it's like being stuck in the sand at the beach in a truck with no weight on the rear wheels and not really knowing that's the problem.
Once you do realize it - you have to figure out how to get some weight on there...
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You're correcto on the friend zone. We've not shared anything but a few goodnight kisses and hugs sorta deal. I have no carnal knowledge of this girl as of yet.
In my mind I can only hope she's been thinking the same thing I have for the last month. Which is why the hell haven't we hooked up yet.
It's just a touchier spot than I've ever been in because, in my past relationships, it usually started with the hooking up part and the relationship part developed later. That is probably why they all failed.
Like you said, I gotta get some weight on there. Find a way out of the friend zone and into the more intimate zone.
I'm too used to one night stands. This is a long term goal, a little more fragile.
My life is one long seinfeld episode.