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Originally Posted by slow&rusty
I am not sure I care much for your use of the term "ditch digger"...I hope you don't have a superiority complex.
Divorce is a result when one or a combination of the following (if all three are absent you are screwed!!) are absent in a relationship:
1) Communication
2) Intimacy
3) Money
Does not matter on your status in society or how much money you make.
Yasin
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You are missing:
4) Values (either vastly different or missing)
5) Time frame
With my ex-wife
1) fine
2) Was amazing!
3) Was terrible - see #4
4) Very mismatched
5) mismatched
This lead to serious stress, since I was willing to work on our problems (my values) but she was not (her values). We had a lot of likes and activities in common, but our underlying values and life time frames were mismatched.