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Originally Posted by LubeMaster77
I called her Mom today and told her that she is in a real bad way. She was actually really surprised to hear this. She had no idea that my Wife crys everyday and is in a pretty bad state. My Wife hides it very well. I think they are coming down this weekend. Thank God!
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Good for you.
You aren't doing your wife a favor if you allow her to use you for a punching bag, or if you let her play the victim for the rest of her life. She will eventually assume you deserve to be treated poorly, because you allow it, and she will miss any real opportunities for joy that the two of you still have.
You could use some counseling on how to deal with this situation. The solution is counter intuitive.
God bless you, and may you find a way to help your wife.