[m21sniper]

Martin:

It's a matter of volume. If i use myself for an example, i get lots of attention and messages from women on the sites i use. 90% of them are either ugly, fat, too old, or too far.

But the other 10% aren't, and 10% of that 10% are quite hot and eminently doable.

And honestly even the ones that are not doable can make you feel desired/wanted, etc, etc. I've met some really nice girls online that i wouldn't date, but that were into cars or shooting and were a lot of fun to hang out with.