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Originally Posted by stomachmonkey
my wife is not materiel at all and we always discuss anniversary/Christmas/bday spending beforehand but this was her 40th and I misses the importance of the milestone
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Yes, I think it's the milestone thing that's at play here (if 5 yrs is a milestone?)...we often do not exchange on such events, but it'a communicated beforehand..I thought this was also, but I think in her mind it was assumed we would exchange since it's a "big one"....FWIW, we have a great relationship and never ever fight or stay mad at anything for long, so I'm sure this will pass, but I'll continue to feel bad nonetheless...
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